First let’s look at the college graduates definition, and then we’ll look at the definition for the rest of us.
“A seemingly absurd or self-contradictory statement or proposition that when investigated or explained may prove to be well founded or true”.
In other words…
“A statement that seems to be impossible, but when you really consider it, turns out to be true”.
One example of a paradox would the title of this article : “How To Speak Without Speaking“.
Now that we’ve established all that let’s quickly get to what this blog post is all about.
We live in a world where many things are judged according to its appearance. Take for instance the following three examples.
How do you know when an apple has gone bad? Because you can see the dark brown spots on it.
How do we know the difference between an child and an adult? Because of what we see with our eyes. The difference in height. A smooth face vs one that now shows signs of aging.
Lastly consider how we initially judge (or determine) a good or a bad car.
Do we not look at the paint job to get a idea of whether or not it’s worth looking into?
Yes! In like manner, we also judge other people based on how they look.
Right or wrong, that’s just how it is, and has been for many years.
So with that basic principle in mind, I believe it would be wise for all to dress intentionally.
Everyday, countless people see you, but you don’t get a chance to talk to them all. You are busy going about your business in the grocery store, gas station, shopping mall and more.
But all the while, there is actually a voice speaking the entire time. Who’s speaking you ask?
Your personal style.
Here’s where we get to the point of this blog post. What does your style say about you?
Perhaps a better question is, “What do you want your style to say about you”?
In the past I’ve spoken with people who have a problem with others taking them seriously.
No matter what they say or do people just laugh and think it’s a joke.
Other people I’ve met tell me how they struggle to have other people respect them.
I personally know ladies who have a desire to meet that special someone, yet feel that they often go unnoticed.
Here’s the secret. Dress intentionally.
Every time you get dressed and walk out the door, have a goal in mind.
Your goal may be to catch the attention of your crush. It could be to make a good impression on your boss in the next business meeting.
Maybe your goal is to separate yourself from the other people interviewing for the open job position. Perhaps you want to represent your family in the best possible way.
Tuck in your shirt– try it every now and then. It’s a quick way to appear more sophisticated and put together.
Fix your hair – comb it, brush it, keep it neat, clean, and conditioned. Messy hair isn’t doing you any favors.
Iron your clothes – paying attention to small details such as this go a long way. Wrinkly clothes give the impression that you were in a rush.
Wear clean clothes – avoid wearing clothes with unsightly spots and/or stains.
Maintain your footwear – have your leather shoes shined. Clean your sneakers. People will always notice what’s on your feet.
Hygiene – brush your teeth, trim finger and toe nails (especially if you wear sandals, heels, etc.) trim noise hairs, and keep breath mints or gum near. Don’t run people off with bad hygiene!
Wear properly fitting clothing– tight clothes are generally thought to be immodest. Likewise, excessively baggy clothing should be off-limits as well. Be honest with yourself, and wear only what puts you in the best light.
Wear perfume or cologne – this is where you can develop your signature scent. Wear a fragrance that suits you, and the current season. This is yet another way to show others you pay attention to the details.
So I’m going to issue you a friendly challenge. Make an honest attempt to take action on the things you read about today. I believe you can do it!
Let’s conclude this blog post with a quote.
Just some food for thought until we meet again.
“A person’s actions will tell you everything you need to know”.
-Anonymous
See you in the next post!
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I love this post! Your appearance absolutely tells a lot about you and I always want to be on point! Thank you for the reminders!
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Take care!
Great tips, Jeffrey! I want to make sure that I am dressing with purpose and good intentions! Can’t wait till the next post!
Thank you for reading! I’m sure you will be dressing well, and we can’t wait till the next post!!